Girls can be so catty and dramatic and passive-aggressive and I can't stand it at all.
So a few months ago on wug's birthday, we had a drunken threesome with this girl who he's friends with. I've been cool with her ever since then, she's still cool with him, everything's been fine, no jealousy, no overdramatics, no catty-ness, everything was fine. Wug's looking for another job, and the call center she works at is hiring, so she was cool enough to drive all the way here to bring him an application. He was gonna give her gas money for that and wanted to hang out for a while, sounded like a good plan to me too. So he was in the shower when she got here because he didn't wanna smell like the drunken night before, so I answer the door, she stays a good 10 feet away from the door the entire time she's talking to me except when she handed me the application. She was acting like she was in a real hurry to leave, we only talked for about 5 minutes at most. She handed me the application, I said "Thank you, I'll give this to him when he's out of the shower." and she was like "ok well I gotta go, bye" so I said bye, and she left. Wug got out of the shower and I told him what happened, and he asked if she was mad, I told him no because the entire time she was smiling and being friendly to me. So he called her and she said she was pissed off because she wasn't invited in. Well, when you come off like you're in a hurry to leave, I'm not gonna try to beg you into staying if you can't. She said she's drama-free and that's why she hates girls so much but I see that a lot differently. Yesterday I saw so much drama it was just stupid. She's just one of those catty bitches like everyone else I know that I fucking avoid.
I don't see why she's so pissed that she didn't get invited in with acting like she was in a hurry to leave, if she was pissed while she was on the phone with him then she was probably pissed from the second she saw my face on the other side of the door, like she's jealous I'm still around, jealous because what she used to have with wug before he met me was completely meaningless. She knows she was just his fuck buddy for a couple of weeks, and I've been here for almost a full year, I think that's what's made her act so catty toward me.
I apologized sincerely to her yesterday, and she hasn't sent any kind of reply so I guess she's still pissed. She wants to hate me she can go right ahead but anytime she wants to hang out with wug, I'll most likely be there so she needs to get the fuck over it. He loves me, he wants me around more than anyone else, so when his friends wanna hang out, I'm usually there, I've yet to meet any of his friends that didn't like me. I think I'm a likable person, a little socially awkward, but still likable. I'm not about drama, I'm not catty, I'm a very straight-forward person. If somebody upsets me, they know, if I like a person, they know, and I can't stand people who are opposite. It drives me completely insane. She wants a competition to try to get in his pants without me involved, she's got some stiff competition and I can be just as dramatic and catty if she wants it, bitch can bring her ass if she wants some shit.
Other than that bit of drama, we had a pretty fun weekend, went to see ck, nola, and jamey. CK wasn't there, he was out of town for the weekend, and nola's van had broke down, so we went to help her with that. On the way there, the brake calipers on wug's car went out, so we spent the night instead of dealing with the 4th of july traffic.Got completely shitfaced trashed drunk - vodka, scotch, smirnoff green apple bite, PBR, and jamey was drinking some kind of wine. I had 6 drinks, which is a ton for me, I usually only have 1-2 drinks, lol. Needless to say, I ended up sick around 5 am. Anyway, we watched fireworks and set off a few bottle rockets and took some goofy ass pictures you can see on my
Myspace page. I really like hanging out with that group of people. Wug is my heart, and ck, nola, and jamey are just a ton of fun to be around. Ck came back early sunday morning, right after me & wug went to sleep. So we spent a good portion of sunday sitting on the couch talking with him, then we came back to wug's house and some stupid shit happened. After all the drama was done, wug stretched my ears a little bit. I have a 14 gauge in my ears now. It hurt REALLY bad at first, but now it feels fine, just like something slightly pulling my earlobes, but it's fine, it looks pretty neat.
check out that ear! This picture was taken with my new awesome phone. I think it takes a lot better pictures than my digital camera does, lol
next piercing - cartilage. I really want what's called industrial.
Comments (7)
she was a fuck buddy before you two started dating? that's bad. of course she had feelings for him. someone always breaks the rules and falls for the other person. you guys should have never had a threesome with an ex whatever. that just bad. but what's done is done and she has to get over it. she ain't getting into his pants. she was there and pussy at the time. and she wants to get bitchy, i'm sure you can remind her of how just important she wasn't.
i hate bitchy catty drama. and esp girls that can't get over the fact that your boyfriend isn't interested in fucking them. crazy bitches!
xo
@JessxMaxine - yeah and that night it wasn't like she even did anything with him, she did with me, but the only girl he touched that night was me. it was a bad idea, it was completely unplanned, it all just kinda happened, and she definitely does need to get over it especially since there's nothing she can do right now as she's in a relationship and just had a miscarriage like last week or so, so even if wug was single and she was trying to get in his pants she'd be stupid as fuck. and even if she did try, he wouldn't have her anymore because of how she gets around and the fact that he thinks i'm way more attractive, i don't see it and that's where most of my bitchiness about this is coming from, just me being self-conscious, but he's like "she's got a weird shape/build about her, you look a hell of a lot better." and telling me how if what i'm thinking is what happened, that he wouldn't have shit to do with her and everything and i believe him, i trust him about it and everything, he's never lied to me yet and i don't think he would, especially since i know what he likes from when i've seen him checking girls out or watching porn or whatever, that he'd go for one of his cute neighbors before this girl, lol.
that is exactly why i only have a few girl friends, i don't get along with girls very well because i hate drama.
she's fucking dumb, wug belongs to you now.
i like your ears. mike wants an industrial, too. his cousin bart has one and he said it hurts when you lay down.
@MCRUsedfreak87 - even if he didn't do anything with her. she felt by you two having a threesome with her, he was putting her in the same level as you. and that isn't even the case. you are on a whole other level. and you know, how it goes, some girls just can't understand how guys don't want them or wanna fuck, it's a mind fuck to her and a bruise to their ego. but it ain't your guys' problem. it's hers. anddddddddd maybe wug shouldn't work at the same place as her. she sounds like a bitch, who would be trying to get fliyrt and try and get at him during work. ugh girls!
let's cocktail her car if she gets stupid again.
xo
@JessxMaxine - haha, sounds like a plan. and he probably won't work with her because he's not even gonna be able to get back to the place to turn in the application.
@xotogetherbabyxo - i'm the same way, i've got like 2 female friends who i barely ever talk to because they've always got drama. it's irritating. and it is dumb, and i'm hoping i'm just taking the situation the wrong way and that what i'm thinking isn't the case. i talked to wug about it a little more today, and he was saying she's probably in a fight with her boyfriend or something and just taking it out on anybody she can. i hate it when people do that, i used to be awful about it but i stopped after getting bitchy with a bunch of people in trl and upsetting people i cared a lot for.
thanks, these hurt to lay down cuz i usually lay on my side, and i'm sure the industrial would hurt a lot more but i've always just thought it looks cool, so i'll probably be getting that later on this year or something...
You have to add me on Myspace so I can see your pics!
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